PEACELOVEBASKETBALL: Connect With Your Teammates
Is there a player on your team who drives you crazy? That is too serious or goofs around too much. Maybe teases you or doesn’t pass you the ball. Or maybe there is some other reason that you don’t see eye to eye. If you have one of those players on your team, it’s time to look for a connection.
You may not care to make a connection. You may think that you have nothing in common with the teammate, but I think you’d be surprised. You can often find common ground if you make an effort, and doing so is one of the best ways to make your team stronger. Hopefully your coach is helping you and your teammates to get to know one another better by doing teambuilding activities and spending fun time together, but if not, try reaching out to your teammates more and see what happens.
It doesn’t have to be a huge gesture; simple comments on the court can make a difference. Nice job. Thanks for the pass. You can do it. This type of communication brings players closer. Kindness goes a long way. You can ask them how their day went, or if the time is right and you’re feeling brave, delve deeper, into family and life experiences. You may find you have more in common than you think. Maybe you’re both Lady GaGa fans or you both love county music. You might learn you both have little brothers who drive you crazy or that you both have a parent from Italy.
As you get to know and understand one anther a change will happen, not only in your personal relationships with your teammates, but also in the way your entire team communicates. You might begin to understand that your teammate makes jokes or quits trying when […]
PEACELOVEBASKETBALL: Coaches Don’t Know Everything
After nearly 30 years of coaching, and many more playing basketball, I have learned a lot. But the most important thing that I learned, is that I don’t know everything.
I always loved attending coaches clinics because it gave me the opportunity to grow my knowledge. Even with volunteering again as a coach since Covid, I’ve had new surprises and insights. I hope that bits and pieces of my coaching blogs, The Importance of a Practice Plan, How to Motivate Your Team and How to Beat Any Zone Press, will augment your knowledge of the game. Enjoy!
PEACELOVEBASKETBALL: Inspiring Basketball Coaching Memoirs
There’s nothing better than a good book to bring you closer to the game and learn about life. As a writer and coach I appreciate what it takes to weave a person’s history into an inspiring story. So I’ve put together a list of must-read memoirs by basketball coaches. The memoirs are filled with heartwarming and thought provoking stories that will also help you be a better coach.
If you don’t have time to sit down and read, then give an audiobook a try. Most of these are available through your library and online book sources. Download them and listen while you walk your dog, clean out your garage or sweep the basketball court before practice and learn a few more things about life and the game.
Written by: Coach Pat Summit with Sally Jenkins
Until recently, Pat Summit was the all-time winningest coach in NCAA Division 1 basketball history (women or men). She became head coach of the Tennesee Vols when she was just 22 years old, and then over a 38 year period went on to win 1098 games and eight National Championships. She played on and coached Olympic Women’s BAsketball teams, was Sports Illustrated “Sportswoman of the Year” and is in the basketball Hall of Fame. She graduated 100 percent of her players and because of her influence, 74 of her players have gone on to become coaches. The memoir Sum It Up shares how coach Summit faced her greatest challenge, early-onset Alzheimer’s disease. The book details her journey starting with her “tough love” upbringing through her diagnosis and gives insight into how she became such an influential coach. Other powerful books by Pat Summit are Reach The Summit and Raise […]
PEN TO PAPER: Just Imagination
We carved pumpkin’s last week and my son and his friend’s rummaged through six boxes of costumes to find the perfect outfits for Halloween night. The boxes are a mish-mash of years of collecting and making costumes out of our best finds from our closets and Goodwill. A witch, skeleton, Mummy, 70’s funk, 80’s punk, UPS driver and Elvis, to name a few.
Costumes simply take a little imagination… just like writing.
Did you dress up? Eat too much candy? Carve pumpkins this Halloween?
Write about it.
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Meet Sonya
Sonya Elliott’s memoir, Back on the Court: A Young Woman’s Triumphant Return to Life, Love & Basketball, is her story of finding hope in the wake of tragedy after she and her fiancé were hit by a train. She blogs about writing, basketball, and life and is currently working on a Young Adult Novel and a Non-Fiction Coaching book. Stories of her career as a fashion model are woven through her memoir, as both the Soloflex and Easy Spirit Shoes commercials were filmed during that time period, and this unique and intriguing business continues to be a part of her life.
Sonya played basketball at Eastern Washington University and was a starter for the Big Sky Champion team that went to the 1987 NCAA tournament. She coached for almost 25 years and was voted Seattle Times Coach of the Year, Seattle Officials Women’s Basketball Association Coach of the Year, and twice voted Metro League Coach of the Year. She loves the game of basketball and is thankful, not only for her husband and kids but for her ability to continue to get back on the court.
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PEACELOVEBASKETBALL: Partner Up and Improve Your Ball Handling
Do you have someone to partner with to work on your ball- handling skills? If not, you should reach out and find someone because working with a partner can help.
With a partner, you improve through accountability and sharing knowledge. Plus, practicing with a friend makes training fun.
ACCOUNTABILITY
With a partner, you create accountability. If you make plans to meet a teammate two or three times a week, there is a better chance that you will practice. You depend on each other to show up.
Working out with a partner will help you stay encouraged and engaged practicing even the most basic drills.
If you stand across from one another, you’re on your way to being able to see the court better when you’re dribbling the ball during a game.
Better yet, have your partner hold […]
PEACELOVEBASKETBALL: “I Like You” Team Building
When I was coaching we did “I Like You” team building. It’s simple yet powerful. I handed out papers to the entire team that had the words, “I like you…” printed across top of the page, and inspiring quotes about teamwork at the bottom, and a blank space with blank space between. Each player got an “I like you” paper for each teammate. (ex: If you have a team of ten, each player gets nine papers). Next the players write each of their teammates names on an I like you paper. Then the fun begins.
I asked the players to write down things that they like about their teammates. First-timers to this activity often take a while to get going but players that have done it before grab their papers and spread out around the locker room or court and get to work.
“Sarah I like you because you are […]
VANAGON ADVENTURES: Baja and Beyond!
The Blue Bomber is Beautiful again!
She’s back to her original Blue Star splendor.
BLUE BOMBER BAJA ADVENTURE
I haven’t posted about my recent adventures. So here I go. It all started back in March. Jason and I had plans to go to La Paz, Mexico to pick up our Vanagon, the Blue Bomber (See previous post for my solo trip to Mexico). We would spend a week moseying up the Baja Peninsula toward home, or so we thought. Plans changed.
Our drive time was reduced to four days instead of seven. No complaining, however, because the drive time was cut short for good reasons. We had an unexpected trip to Nevis beforehand, and we had plans to watch Cass run at Indoor Nationals in New Mexico, at the end of the trip. Like I said, nothing to complain about, it just rushed our Baja adventure a bit. Still, between time […]
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