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PeaceLoveBasketball Friday: Laugh and Cry and Make Your Halloween Special.

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My 17-year-old daughter asked me to help her get her creepy alien on this morning. Gotta love it! A special morning.

According to coach Jim Valvano, if I laugh, think and cry today, I’ll REALLY be on my way to having a special day.

If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that’s a full day. That’s a heck of a day. You do that seven days a week, you’re going to have something special.  -Jim Valvano

I’ve attached two basketball videos to help you on your way. One will make you laugh (especially if you’re a coach, though my nephews showed it to me a few years ago and they think it is hilarious) and one will make you cry. Now think a little and you’re on your way…

 

Monday’s Pen to Paper: Point of View

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Last week in my Young Adult Fiction writing class, we talked about Point of View. We discussed the importance of keeping to a teen voice and having teen appropriate stakes. And then we looked at developing the setting, adding details and how to keep the action going, and the one thing that I noticed is that everybody does it differently. And that is what is great about writing. Yes, there are the basics, but each person makes the story their own. Usually, YA is written first-person (present or past tense) or third-person limited, but not always. And in our class we decided that whatever POV a writer chooses, they simply need to do it with purpose. With authority.

When I was writing my memoir, Back on the Court, I wrote the first draft in first-person present-tense. It felt right to me. (It took me about eight years, but it felt right). I liked the immediacy, the way a reader would be in my head, feeling what I was dealing with at the time, and hopefully relating to it in a way that could be helpful for them if they were struggling in life. And then one day I had an instructor from one of my classes tell me that they thought my book should be written in past-tense, so I spent probably four months switching it to past-tense, and making many changes to the story as I did. When I was all done with the transition to past-tense, I decided that I didn’t like it, but I did like many of the edits and changes that happened during the process.

I spent another several months switching my manuscript back to present-tense. And though I wouldn’t recommend this lengthy road to a finished manuscript, just know […]

PeaceLoveBasketball Friday: Believe in me

Every year I show an inspiring sports movie during our season. I show the movie Believe In Me, based on a true story, every other year because it is one of my favorites.

Check it out…

Monday’s Pen to Paper: Blog or No Blog?

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Recently I had a fellow writer ask about blogging. They were trying to decide if they should blog. I wrangled with this idea myself when I first set up a website. I started out blogging on occasion and, as with many writers, I kept thinking, “Why am I doing this? Who really cares to read my blog?” And then I would fizzle out and my writing would stop. Finally, I had a little sit down with myself, and knowing that it would help my writing, I made a commitment to two blogs a week. And then I reminded myself that if just one person finds it helpful or enjoyable, it is worth it, and that keeps me on task.

So if writing a blog keeps you writing, follow your heart and blog!

WRITING PROMPT #1: Write your first blog now. 

WRITING PROMPT #2: Write about your heart’s desire…

 

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Meet Sonya

Sonya Elliott’s memoir, Back on the Court: A Young Woman’s Triumphant Return to Life, Love & Basketball, is her story of finding hope in the wake of tragedy […]

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Meet Sonya

Sonya Elliott’s memoir, Back on the Court: A Young Woman’s Triumphant Return to Life, Love & Basketball, is her story of finding hope in the wake of tragedy after she and her fiancé were hit by a train. She blogs about writing, basketball, and life and is currently working on a Young Adult Novel and a Non-Fiction Coaching book. Stories of her career as a fashion model are woven through her memoir, as both the Soloflex and Easy Spirit Shoes commercials were filmed during that time period, and this unique and intriguing business continues to be a part of her life.

Sonya played basketball at Eastern Washington University and was a starter for the Big Sky Champion team that went to the 1987 NCAA tournament. She coached for almost 25 years and was voted Seattle Times Coach of the Year, Seattle Officials Women’s Basketball Association Coach of the Year, and twice voted Metro League Coach of the Year. She loves the game of basketball and is thankful, not only for her husband and kids but for her ability to continue to get back on the court.

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PeaceLoveBasketball Friday: Practice + Heart + Hustle = Reaching Your Dreams

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Since becoming a parent, I’ve realized that, to a certain degree, each and every one of us is hardwired at birth. Born with certain tendencies. My son and daughter have different wiring, different ways about doing things, even though they were raised in the same house. But no matter your hardwiring, there’s an equation to living that will help you in following your hopes and dreams, practice plus a whole lot of heart and hustle.

If, for example, your dream is to make the varsity basketball team for your school, you’ve got to put the work in, practice. Get up early, or stay up late, and go to the YMCA or the closest park to shoot and work on your ball handling, expand your knowledge and go to camps or ask your coach for help, go to open gyms and consider […]

Monday’s Pen to Paper: Big Magic

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Last week I had the pleasure of seeing Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, speak at Benaroya Hall. It is alway helpful to hear that I’m not alone when it comes to the struggles of getting work done and when this information is  followed up with thoughts on how to move forward in the writing journey, I am inspired and itching for my pen.

Ms. Gilbert’s idea of creativity and fear being a package deal makes sense. I have written a book and I know I can do it, but there is always this little something that works to drag me down in the process of writing another one, this fear perhaps that it can’t possibly happen again. It takes a lot of work to pull thousands of words together in a way that makes sense and that […]

PeaceLoveBasketball Friday: Get Ready for Basketball Season!

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Basketball season is around the corner and for the first time in a long while I’m not preparing to coach, but instead preparing to watch. Simply watching is bound to keep me busy as I will be supporting my son and the boys basketball team, and of course I will be cheering on the high school girls team that I used to coach, and though I will miss being a part of their season as their coach, not coaching will also allow me to travel and watch my daughter who is playing basketball in college. I can’t wait!

If you’re a fan, parent, coach, or a player, here are some great basketball books to get you pumped up and ready for the season!

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In These Girls, Hope is a Muscle (Memoir) by Madeleine Blais

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