I played basketball because I love the game. Little did I know that the lessons that I learned on the court would one day save my life. When I was twenty-four, I was nearly killed when the car I was riding in was hit by a train. Knowing how to work through challenges and set goals helped me to make it through the most difficult time in my life; to set goals, to commit to physical therapy, to handle the stress, to believe in myself and to go on living.

What you learn on the court, rink, diamond or whatever playing field you take when you participate in your sport, will be with you the rest of your life and shape the person who you become.

Belief In Yourself

You can define this as resilience or developing a never give up attitude. Your time playing sports will teach you to believe in yourself and understand that you are capable of more than you think you are. When you participate in sports, you have setbacks and learn more about yourself. You loose games, you deal with injuries, you find that life is not always fair. But you also learn how to overcome these obstacles. This is a powerful lesson.

Set and Work Toward Goals

You overcome obstacles on the court, diamond or sports field by setting goals and working toward them. You learn what steps to take and how to adjust along the way to reach your goals. When you loose a game you, and your team, will work on drills in practice so that you improve. If you get injured you will do physical therapy so that you can play again. Setting goals and working to reach them is part of life; it’s how you reach your dreams.

Commitment & Work Ethic

To reach your dreams you have to work at it. You have to be committed to your goals and then work hard. When you put time in, and practice with intent, you will get stronger and better at your sport. Not always the best, but with hard work you will get better than you were before, and that’s what matters. And with discipline you will see results and get closer to achieving your goals. All the while you’re also learning a good work ethic for life.

Deal with Pressure and Stress

As much as sports can be fun, they can also be stressful. You may feel pressure to play at a higher lever, you may have pressure from your parents or tight games might stress you out. Whatever the case, sports are one place in your life where you can learn to deal with stress. You may learn how to handle stress simply by going through the experiences but if you’re lucky you may get some help by a coach along the way. You may learn to have a pregame routine or pick up techniques like visualizing or meditation to help handle the pressure.

Good Sportsmanship

There are also other pressures when it comes to playing sports, which can be hard to handle. You have had bad calls against you or you may not be starting when you feel like you should be. But when playing sports you should learn to ignore the bad calls and treat the referees with respect as well as learn to support your teammates whether you’re starting or on the bench. And you learn to shake your opponents hand no matter the outcome of the game. You learn how to win or loose with class. You learn good sportsmanship

The Importance of Teamwork

When you play sports you learn to work with others; your teammates, your coaches, and even the officials. Great teams emphasize the importance of working together, and trusting and respecting one another despite differences. Understanding what it takes to be a part of a team will help you as you work with others in jobs, groups and committees throughout your lifetime.

Play because you love the sport, the competition and the friendships that you build. The rest it just icing on the cake.